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Norman's story: Help hospice care live on by leaving a gift in Will

Norman has supported Hospice in the Weald for a couple of years through our lottery and retail shops. When it came to writing his Will, he wanted to leave a gift to a local charity – and choosing the Hospice helps him to remember his loved ones and protect the future of hospice care. Below, Norman kindly shares his story…

norman and marie
norman's Story

Building trust

“It was a good six to nine months after Marie – my wife – died, that, I thought, it’s time to rehome her clothes. She had lovely clothes as we had just been on a cruise before she died, so I looked around and I saw your name, Hospice in the Weald.

I came down to the Hospice in Pembury and asked if it would be possible that I can donate her clothes, but I didn’t want to see them anywhere in Crowborough as a reminder, and Hospice in the Weald gave me a 100% guarantee that I wouldn’t, and I didn’t; that built my trust with this amazing charity. We were always very interested in charities locally, me and Marie.”

“She was thoughtful and a very caring lady, so I wanted to help a charity in Marie’s memory.”

“Marie had a thing called Myotonic Dystrophy, a muscle wasting disease. I became her carer in 1987. We joined a nationwide group, and I became a contact point for the Southeast – for people to find out information from, as we always wanted to help. Unfortunately, we lost a child, who only lived a day – so I always knew I wanted to do something to help children in Marie’s name, and so it’s important to me that you not only support adults but children, too.”

norman and tina

A gift in memory of loved ones

“After Marie died I felt I lost the will to live but a companionship with a friend of ours, Tina, developed into a relationship; it saved me, she brought me back and gave me a reason to live. Unfortunately, Tina was a very unwell lady and died in 2024, so not only is the gift in memory of Marie but also Tina, they were both such lovely ladies.

Leaving a legacy will hopefully do some good, I’m not a wealthy person but the fact I can actually give something back in my name as well as Marie and Tina’s means a lot.”

At Hospice in the Weald, we are trying to protect the future of hospice care, so we asked Norman what the term hospice care means to him…

“It means at the end of someone’s life, to give them dignity and a good last bit of life. There’s so much more to the Hospice than people think. I’m sad to say I never knew about the Hospice before Marie died but now is my opportunity to share why it is important to support, because it is a wonderful organisation and you never know if you’ll ever need it yourself. Writing a Will was very easy, I wrote a professional one with local solicitors, but there are lots of different ways to write one.”

Hospice in the Weald are partnered with two Will writing services to help you write your will with ease and for free. Click the link below to find out more. Norman’s journey with the Hospice started as a supporter of our retail shops and is continuing with a gift in his Will, which will help protect the future of hospice care for all, for now, forever.

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