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Finding joy in watercolour painting: Lorraine's story

lorraine painting using watercolours

Lorraine attends Living Well at our Pembury Hospice, where she discovered a variety of activities that support her wellbeing. Here, she shares her story and how attending has brought extra joy to her life, helping her find a sense of community and unwind through watercolour painting.

I’ve been married for 36 years. My husband, Mark, was in the army, so we moved around a lot. Travelling gave me lots of wonderful experiences, especially living in Cyprus. We also lived in Northern Ireland and Colchester.

lorraine enjoying time in the pembury hospice garden
lorraine with her family

A love of travel

We’ve got a van we’ve done up as a camper van, and we take our dog along and have a great time. We’ve been to Italy, drove back through Austria, Germany and Amsterdam in the Netherlands and experienced the tulip fields. We’ve been all over the place.

As a hobby, I enjoy working on my family tree, which I’ve done to about 1800; I also love taking photographs and coming here to the Hospice because it gives me something to do rather than sit at home all the time.

I’ve been diagnosed with Motor Neuron Disease (MND), and it is progressing, so it has slowed me down a lot and means that often I am bored and not doing much. Coming to Living Well keeps me active and wanting more.

My favourite thing about Living Well is meeting with people, I’m very much a people person, so I like chatting and everybody is so friendly.

It’s been nice to meet people who also have things going on and to learn about what they’re up to. A lot of them are older than me, but I feel like many of them have become friends.

I started receiving support at the Hospice almost a year ago. I do a variety of different activities in Living Well, including seated exercise, reiki, reflexology, clay and attending the Gathering – but one of the most enjoyable things is watercolour painting.

lorraine smiling while painting
lorraine and volunteer alan in the watercolour group

Discovering watercolour

Painting helped me find my curiosity and a sense of accomplishment. I get to be creative and love the expressiveness of it. I’ve done better than I anticipated, and some days the paintings turn out very well. I’ve learnt a lot, and I really appreciate the chance to have a go.

My mum, Pauline, used to paint, so I followed in her footsteps. Even though I’m not as good as her, I enjoy it and now have my own kit to also do it at home. This is all thanks to coming to the sessions regularly.

My overall experience has really helped me grow as a person; they don’t judge at the Hospice, and nothing is a no, it’s always a yes. Coming here has made a difference to my life; there’s nothing to fear or be anxious about. The staff and volunteers are very friendly, you’re included without judgement, and everything is geared around making you enjoy what you do and the things that matter to you.

Living Well is truly about living well and coming here has helped me make the most of life.

I would encourage anyone to try if they are in a similar situation. It’s not lonely here at all, quite the opposite. I haven’t felt nervous and have enjoyed everything I have had a go at. I’ve done more things here than I would ever have done outside of the Hospice, whilst learning that hospice care is not about death but about discovering that there is more to life.

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