If you are looking after someone and providing substantial care to that person, then you are considered to be a carer.  Being thought of as a carer is not a replacement identity - you are still a wife, partner, husband, friend, parent, son or daughter.... you are not changing role, just adding something extra.

Many people, when they begin to look after another person, do not necessarily consider that they are carers.  The task they undertake is often carried out because of the love and respect they have for the person they care for, or in friendship for another person they know well.  For many it will be gradual process or it could happen when you least expect it.

Accepting the role of carer means you will be regarded as part of the ‘Care Team' and it will enable you to get support and advice so that you can maintain the quality of your own life, and that of the person you are caring for, for as long as possible.

Our Carers Support Group

A support group for carers of all patients under Hospice care meets for two hours on five consecutive weeks, with individual carers being invited to attend.  A group runs two or three times per year, depending on demand with up to twelve participants.  The aim of the group is to offer information on topics such as state benefits, availability of care services, side effects of treatments/medical issues, problems with eating/nutrition and looking after yourself.  The Group also offers a chance for carers to meet and share their experiences with others in similar circumstances.  For more details please speak to your Clinical Nurse Specialist or Family Support Team member.