If you are looking after someone and providing substantial care to that person, then you are considered to be a carer.  Being thought of as a carer is not a replacement identity – you are still a wife, partner, husband, friend, parent, son or daughter.... you are not changing role, just adding something extra.

Many people, when they begin to look after another person, do not necessarily consider that they are carers.  The task they undertake is often carried out because of the love and respect they have for the person they care for, or in friendship for another person they know well.  For many it will be a gradual process or it could happen when you at least expect it.

Accepting that role of the carer means you will be regarded as part of the ‘Care Team’ and it will enable you to get support and advice so that you can maintain the quality of your own life, and that of the person you are caring for, as long as possible.